2014 - Year of the Horse...Happy Chinese New Year.

恭喜發財, 新年快樂.
祝大家: 心想事成, 身體健康....馬年行大運~~~
Happy Chinese New Year~~~

27/01/14 - Thought of the Day

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

25/01/14 - Pic of the Day

PIC OF THE DAY

WHY WAIT???  TIME DOESN'T STOP FOR YOU UNTIL YOU FIND THAT PERFECT MOMENT TO ACTION. JUST DO IT!!

Happy 4th Birthday

Today is this little guy's 4th birthday. Unfortunately he's stuck in the cattery whilst I'm enjoying myself in HK.

Promise I'll make it up to him when I get back.

Love you heaps baby

The year that was 2013...

2013....what was achieved??

Thinking back....
*  had a few spanish lessons (ok, I gave up after a few, but I did make an effort!!!)
*  finally got inked (tattoo)
*  finally fulfilled my dream of going to HK Coliseum for a concert.  This is as electric as what I've expected.  Although I never dreamed I'll ever go and watch a Joey Yung concert (even though I think she got some great songs)....the atmosphere was definitely one to savour.  What makes this even better that I went on NYE, countdown to 2014 with 10000+ people.  Joey was right, she was nervous and have no idea what to really do for the count down.  I think Sammi would definitely be better for the countdown.
*  watching more English TV series.  Best thing I've watched is Pretty Little Liars; Rizzoli & Isles, Person Of Interest; Grey's Anatomy.
*  Have increased my celebrity crushes.....hahahaha!!!!

2013....what I hated the most??
*  back to an APS4 from acting APS5.  OK, I know I might not b the best, perhaps cos I'm an easy pushover and take on a bit more than what I can handle....but in 2014, I'm gonna make an effort to ook for other positions outside of BI.
*  Losing touch with some friends.  Dunno why I have lost touch with some people.  Maybe I am deeming them irrevelant in my life now.

These are the ones that stand out for the year.  I'm sure there is more yet I can't think of what they are yet.

06/01/14 - Thought of the Day

THOUGHT OF THE DAY

20 Things to Stop Doing to Others

There is one key factor that can either damage your relationships or deepen them.  That factor is your attitude.  If you’re hoping to grow and maintain positive relationships in your life, read on.  Below you will find a 20 step attitude adjustment guaranteed to help you do just that.

1. Stop holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
2. Stop complaining. – Instead, use your time and energy to do something about it.
3. Stop meaning what you don’t say. – People can’t read minds.  Communicate regularly and effectively.
4. Stop making it all about you. – The world revolves around the sun, not you. Take a moment to acknowledge this truth on a regular basis.
5. Stop lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself.  Either you own up to your actions or your actions will ultimately own you.
6. Stop blaming.  – Blaming others accomplishes nothing.  Either you own your problems, or they will own you.  Your choice.  When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give-up your power over that part of your life, and you annoy everyone around you in the process.
7. Stop doubting. – If you think that you can’t achieve something, I have some news for you, you’re probably right.  But don’t let your self-doubt interfere with other people’s dreams.  Remember, the one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it.  (Read Unstoppable.)
8. Stop interrupting. – Correcting someone when they’re blatantly wrong is one thing, but always interjecting your opinions out of turn gets old fast.
9. Stop being selfish. – You get what you put into a relationship.  Nothing less, nothing more.
10. Stop judging. – Everyone is fighting their own unique war. You have no clue what they are going through, just like they have no clue what you’re going through.
11. Stop gossiping. – Gossiping about others is a lose/lose situation.  It hurts them, and then it hurts your reputation.
12. Stop making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise.  Over-deliver on everything you do.
13. Stop being defensive. – Just because someone sees something differently than you doesn’t mean either one of you is wrong.  Keep an open mind.  Open minds discover great things.
14. Stop comparing people to others. – No two people are alike.  Everyone has their own strengths.  We are only competing against our own selves.
15. Stop expecting people to be perfect. – ‘Perfect’ is the enemy of ‘good.’  And genuine ‘goodness’ is hard to find in this world.  Don’t overlook it.
16. Stop trying to be everything to everyone. – It’s impossible.  But making one person smile can change the world.  Maybe not the whole world, but their world.  So narrow your focus.
17. Stop screwing people over just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it.  Think bigger.  Do what you know in your heart is right.  (Read Life’s Greatest Lessons.)
18. Stop making mountains out of molehills. – People make mistakes.  Crap happens.  There’s no reason to stress out yourself and everyone around you because of it.  One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time?”  If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
19. Stop being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your own.
20. Stop giving out advice, and just listen. – Less advice is often the best advice.  People don’t need lots of advice, they need a listening ear and some positive reinforcement.  What they want to know is already somewhere inside of them.  They just need time to think, be and breathe, and continue to explore the undirected journeys that will eventually help them find their direction.

And remember, your relationship with yourself is the closest and most important relationship you will ever have.  So pay attention to it, develop it, nurture it, and never, ever stop.

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2014 New Years HK

2014.  What better way than to be memorised by the city of lights.  Went to Tsim Sha Tsui tonight to take a 2014 pic before they take the lights down.

Gotta love this city

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2014

HAPPY NEW YEAR

What better way to start the New Year than Shay Mitchell greeting us all??
Hope everyone do have a great New Year and a fantastic 2014.

I'm currently in Hong Kong so sending my love from HK to all my friends, family and even those that I don't know.

And New Years resolutions??  I have no idea what they are yet.  Cos every year I made resolutions, I never stick to them.  I rather work on them as I go along in the year.  Alrite, maybe I do know one thing I want to do in 2014, and I'm hoping to get that done by perhaps mid 2014.  I might already be setting myself up for failure.  But who knows, miracles might happen....maybe 2014 will be the year of miracles.